The limits they are necessary, they are the backbone of every healthy relationship. However, this does not mean that it is easy to set limits naturally. For many of us, setting limits makes us feel uncomfortable, sometimes even guilty and scared, when we affirm our needs. Find in this section the best phrases to establish healthy limits.
Famous phrases to set limits
When one can say NO, the YES has a very different flavor. Alejandro Jodorowsky
Daring to set limits is about having the courage to love ourselves, even when we run the risk of disappointing others. Brown Brene
If you let yourself be manipulated by grief, you will be disrespecting and will continue to encourage harmful and toxic behavior in others.
When we are not able to set limits and demand responsibilities, we feel used and abused. Brown Brene
Let's say what we have to say. We can say it gently, but firmly, speaking with the heart. We don't need to be critical or have no tact, or blame or be cruel when we tell our truths. Melody Beattie
Limits are a part of our self-care. They are healthy, normal and necessary. Doreen Virtue
You are not insensitive or selfish for not letting yourself blackmail emotionally, but conscious and worthy of respect, of respect for yourself.
If we are very careful not to hurt anyone under any circumstances, we will end up hurting ourselves and others. P. Jakubowski
You get what you tolerate. Henry Cloud
The generous set limits, because selfish rarely do. Rachel Wolchin
Self-dependent people are not manipulable. And everyone hates those people who don't let themselves be manipulated. Jorge Bucay
The difference between successful people and really successful people is that really successful people know how to say "No" easily. Warren Buffett
If it is a duty to respect the rights of others, so is to defend their own. Herbert spencer
Setting limits is a way of taking care of yourself. They call me selfish or indifferent because I don't do things in their own way. I care about me, too. Christine Morgan
If you want to be respected by others, it is best to respect yourself. Just for that, just for your own respect, will you inspire others to respect you. Fiódor Dostoevsky
Only from self-respect can we respect others. Walter Riso
The limits define us. They define who we are and what we are not. A limit shows me where it ends and where the other person begins. Henry Cloud
Letting go helps us live in a more peaceful state of mind and helps restore balance. It allows others to be responsible for them and for us to take distance from situations that do not belong to us. This frees us from unnecessary tension. Melody Beattie
Trying to improve yourself is a company that usually works better than trying to improve others. Noel Clarasó
If a thorn hurts me, I turn away from the thorn ... but I don't hate it. Loved nerve
Your personal limits protect the inner core of your identity and your right to choose. Gerard Manley Hopkins
Setting limits on love does not mean setting limits on feeling. Walter Riso
On numerous occasions we feel guilty for things that are not our problem. When another person behaves inappropriately or in a way that we do not like, we challenge their behavior, and if this person becomes angry or defensive, then we may feel guilty, but it is not our problem. Melody Beattie
The others treat us as we allow them to treat us.