Paul Ekman is a pioneer psychologist in the study of emotions and their facial expression. He has been considered one of the hundred most outstanding psychologists of the twentieth century. Ekman assumes an evolutionary perspective, in the sense that the development of the traits and states of the human being, in time, is the foundation of his research.
Famous quotes by Paul Ekman
We experience emotions as they happen to us, not as we have chosen them.
No important relationship survives if trust is totally lost.
People misunderstand events, especially the meaning of other people's actions and the reasons that lead them to act in one way or another.
A broken promise is not a lie.
Most lies succeed because nobody bothers to find out the truth.
Remember that the polygraph test is not a lie detector. Only emotional activation is detected.
Fear can occur simultaneously with sadness, anger or disgust.
Smiles are probably the most underrated facial expressions, much more complicated than most people think. There are dozens of smiles, each different in appearance and in the message expressed.
Lying is a central feature of life, so that a better understanding of it is relevant to almost all human affairs.
Some people have a very strong anger response, while in others the anger is moderate.
Emotions can supplant the most powerful motives in our lives. People are not going to eat something that is horrible. Some will even starve. Emotion triumphs over hunger, over sex and the desire to live.
People also smile when they are miserable.
The unhappy person is expected to hide his negative feelings, and put on a courteous smile to accompany the "I'm fine, thanks, and how are you?" In response to "How are you today?". True feelings are probably not detected, not because the smile is a good mask, but because in polite exchanges people rarely worry about how the other person really feels.
Emotions change the way we see the world and how we interpret the actions of others.
Can you tell when a politician is lying? When he moves his lips!
Shame is related to guilt, but there is a difference. To feel guilt we don't need an audience, but to feel shame we need the rejection and ridicule of others. The distinction between these two emotions is fundamental because it can lead to a person reacting in different ways. The desire to free yourself from guilt can lead to a confession, the desire to avoid shame can lead to not doing it.
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